Anonymous said:

My best friend and i, well he kissed me and we've sort of been making out and cuddling. I like this other guy though, and I've liked him for 4 years and i really want to be his girlfriend. I feel like the kissing is wrong, and we've been through a lot, he doesnt like me, i definitely dont like him, but for some reason we end up in that way. Any help?


if you have a chance with that other boy, the go for it! but it you are pretty confident it will be morre than you will be barganing for, then try to let yourself like your bestfriend (: who knows what will ahppen


Anonymous said:

how do you prove to people that you have zero feelings for someone and you just want to be friends with that person? these people trust me and know i'd never lie but for some reason they dont beleive this, ive told the truth i dont know what elese i can do :(


just nicely ignore them an hopefully theyll get the hint, if they dont then you an take it up a notch without being a bitch!!


Anonymous said:

theres this guy that i was really good friends with, we'd hangout one-on-one and have a really great time, we were really close and told eachother alot but he randomly stopped talking to me and i said "hey i havent talked to you in a while" at school he kept giving one word answers and seemed mad i asked if he was mad at me he said no im insanley confused we used to talk every day and i dont know what to do but im sad because of other reasons and hes the person i want to talk to it about


he seems nervous to talk or something, if youve known eachother for a while then this could be true, you also may be over analyzing take a step back and dont be clingy keep talkong to him and give him space.


Anonymous said:

There's this guy I've liked for 2 years. We've cuddled and held hands but nothing else. Then last weekend we went camping, and he kissed me. We spent a lot of the weekend making out. Now I'm feeling kind of strange - like I can't decide if I still want him. Could it just be that I'm afraid of taking it to the next level? I've been single for like 4 years now.. I still find him attractive and enjoy his company. We've also rented a hotel room for my birthday, and I'm stressing.


you need to just go for it and give the whole situation a chance because like everyone says, YOLO haha but really, you will regret not taking the chance because you never know what could happen :)

best wishes

∞ sarah


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Anonymous said:

hey i'm 14 and I masturbate 5-7 times a week and watch porn maybe 3 times a month. Is it normal to watch porn? It just makes me feel so ashamed yet I want to watch more. I know they are just all actors and it isn't even real but still!


its actually healthy, and porn is real. but you should avoid real sex at your age so its good you have an alternative. justt try to cut down a little if you feel ashamed.

sarah


Anonymous said:

hey (: i was just wondering if you had any ideas of how i can get over my ex boyfriend? thanks xoxo


You gotta grab you’re single girlfriends and go out on the town! Act flirty don’t talk about him, be willing to meet new people and don’t be shy !!

Sadeah xx


Anonymous said:

my ex and i broke up, we were together for 2 months, i thought i was so inlove! i thought he was amazing but then everytime we were together or spoke all he would talk about was sexual stuff and i didnt believe I was ready but he was and i was afraid he would break up with me because I wouldnt do sexual stuff so one day i went over to his house and did some things that I regret, he soon broke up with me and now hes telling everyone what we did,now people are saying stuff to me,what should i do?


well that guy is a big cockface, cause it sounds like he used you to be honest, you should just tell the truth, no one can call you names cause at the time, he was YOUR BOYFRIEND, but just move on, find  a guy that will wait(:

sarah


Anonymous said:

My best friend and I have been through some things (him asking me out, I turned him down because I love another guy and all the complications). He took a break and tells me that he is over me. We've been good, but today he kissed me. It was completely out of the blue and it was his first kiss. I'm not sure what to do, We love each other but in that best friend kind of way, but I don't know if I believe he's over me now. Any thoughts? What should I do?


take a chance to look at him in a “more that a friend” kind of way see if you like it, since you guys are bestfriends, that can always work out to be a really fun and cool relationship! ahahbut if you dont like it, just go back to being bestfriends, haha havent you sen the movie friends with benefits??

sarah